Is my relationship with my best friend a healthy one?

I can tell you this for sure... your friendship with her is not a healthy one! i am not saying that because i am a girl. she has a boyfriend. and she does not need to be having any kind of sex until she is married! but thats just my opinion. but she might love her boyfriend but what you did to her when she kept getting wet and u were just trying to help just mkes the whole friendship thing way more than friends. kind of like being a sex partner. and if her boyfriend found out im sure he would not be happy with what you two did and it will probably not end good for either of you! just know what you did was wrong and move on. ask god for forgiveness. stop sleeping with each other in the same bed at night when she stays with you. it was fine till u two got into all the sexual stuff u did. start over clean and try to be a good friend without all the sleeping with each other, and no more anal or oral sex. your friendship will grow stronger if u do that. and i think u do have feelings for her cause u cnt do any of that and not think bout it or feel anything. and same for her. sorry. good luck!